Just got this great article from one of our soon-to-be contributors – Alia Soraya. She just tied the knot a year ago and recently returned from a long awaited honeymoon. Alia skipped the norm honeymoon by the beach and opted for something a little more classic, romantic and European. Enjoy!

Paris - the city of romance
I have to admit, I didn’t have a ‘proper’ honeymoon. You know, the one where it’s just you and your hubby, being all romantic and secluded in a spectacular beach villa. Nope, definitely not.
But what we did do was celebrate our SECOND wedding reception in France for my husband’s family and friends. So I guess that counted as our little unofficial honeymoon. We spent 3 lovely weeks in London, Paris, Champagne and Britanny with near-perfect weather and lots of wonderful family time – my sister joined us from Australia, my aunt from London and my parents from Malaysia, so overall a very international and family oriented trip :) Though some may find traveling with family can be a pain, both of us being close to our families meant that it was natural to want to spend time with them on the trip.
I think many couples get a bit worried spending on a honeymoon especially after splurging on a wedding-of-a-lifetime and moving into your new home. It amounts to a lot of money, and at the end of the day, the whole idea about getting married is that it’s not about the day or package but about the marriage and the rest of your life. And not starting your married life in debt – that’s an important one!
As Malaysians, we’re very lucky to have many low-cost airlines operating from Kuala Lumpur, making it the perfect base to go travelling. While people in Europe have to fly halfway across the world to enjoy our tropical treasures and that of our neighbours, everything is right at our fingertips. Be it one of the paradise islands of Thailand, Philippines, or romantic Bali or even our very own Langkawi, we really are spoilt for choice.
For brides who want to have a destination wedding or honeymoon, I would suggest combining the two, which is kind of what I did. Europe is beautiful for the perfect fairytale wedding with France and Italy being the top picks for many couples. Plus, the fact that it’s far away means you can whittle down your guest list for that perfect intimate getaway!

Chateau de Courcelles - in Champagne, France
So there we were, 9 months after our 3-day Malaysian wedding, with a quick culture stop in London and a beautiful sunny romantic week (alone) in Paris. Has anyone ever had a wedding celebration that dragged on so long? Hey, I’m not complaining. The fairytale backdrop picked out by my mother-in-law was the elegant Chateau de Courcelles located just outside the city of Reims, capital of the Champagne region – yes, the heavenly place where bubbly is created!
A Relais & Chateaux establishment, this beautiful chateau has its share of historic weddings with Napoleon Bonaparte marrying his second wife Marie Louise of Austria and has even hosted many of Christian Dior’s salons in the 50s. The property boasts its own river, parklands and 15-acre forest.

Hello Moet!
After the cozy cocktails and wonderful feast, we spent the next day visiting champagne cellars – with the notable being the Moet & Chadon cellars, home of Moet & Chandon and Dom Perignon. What a wonderful treat it was to learn the time-honoured procedures in making champagne, from vine to bottle! You really gain an appreciation for lovely bubbly by the end of the tour and a vintage tasting session…YUM!
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